|"Keep your fork."
There was a woman who had been diagnosed with a terminal illness and had
been given three months to live. So as she was getting her things "in
order", she contacted her pastor and had him come to her house to discuss
certain aspects of her final wishes. She told him which songs she wanted
sung at the service, what scriptures she would like read, and what outfit
she wanted to be buried in. The woman also requested to
be buried with her favorite Bible. Everything was in order and the pastor was preparing to
leave when the woman suddenly remembered something very important to her.
"There's one more thing," she said excitedly.
"What's that?" came the pastor's reply.
"This is very important," the woman continued. "I want to be buried with a
fork in my right hand."
The pastor stood looking at the woman, not knowing quite what to say.
"That surprises you, doesn't it?", the woman asked.
"Well, to be honest, I'm puzzled by the request," said the pastor.
The woman explained. "In all my years of attending church socials and
potluck dinners, I always remember that when the dishes of the main courses
were being cleared, someone would inevitably lean over and say,
"Keep your fork". It was my favorite part because I knew that something
better was coming...like velvety chocolate cake or deep-dish apple
pie. Something wonderful, and with substance! So,
I just want people to see me there in that casket with a fork in
my hand and I want them to wonder "What's with the fork?".
Then I want you to tell hem:
"Keep your fork. The best is yet to come. "The pastor's eyes welled up
with tears of joy as he hugged the woman good-bye. He knew this would
be one of the last times he would see her before her death.
But he also knew that the woman had a better grasp of heaven than
he did. She KNEW that something better was coming. At the
funeral people were walking by the woman's casket and they saw the
pretty dress she was wearing another favorite Bible and the fork
placed in her right hand.
Over and over, the pastor heard the question "What's with the fork?" And
over and over he smiled.
During his message, the pastor told the people of the conversation he had
with the woman shortly before she died. He also told them about the
fork and about what it symbolized to her. The pastor told the people
how he could not stop thinking about the fork and told them that they probably
would not be able to stop thinking about it either. He was right.
So the next time you reach down for your fork, let it remind you
ever so gently, that the best is yet to come.
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