Leaning on the arms of God
A cold March wind danced around the dead of night in Dallas as the doctor walked into the small hospital room of Diana Blessing. Still groggy
from surgery, her husband David held her hand as they braced themselves
for the latest news. That afternoon of March 10, 1991, complications had
forced Diana, only 24-weeks pregnant, to undergo an emergency cesarean
to deliver the couple's new daughter, Danae Lu Blessing.At
12 inches long and weighing only one pound and nine ounces, they already
knew she was perilously premature.
Still, the doctor's soft words dropped like bombs. I don't
think she's going to make it,he said, as kindly as he could. There's only a 10-percent
chance she will live through the night, and even then, if by some slim chance
she does make it, her future could be a very cruel one.
Numb with disbelief, David and Diana listened as
the doctor described the devastating problems Danae would likely
face if she survived. She would never walk, she would never talk, she would
probably be blind, and she would certainly be prone to other catastrophic
conditions from cerebral palsy to complete mental retardation,
and on and on.
No was all Diana could say. She and David, with their
5-year old son Dustin, had long dreamed of the day they would have a daughter
to become a family of four. Now, within a matter of hours, that dream was
slipping away. Through the dark hours of morning as Danae held onto life
by the thinnest thread, Diana slipped in and out of sleep, growing more
and more determined that their tiny daughter would live - and live to be a healthy,
happy young girl.
But David, fully awake and listening to additional
dire details of their daughter's chances of ever leaving the hospital alive,
much less healthy, knew he must confront his wife with the inevitable.
David walked in and said that we needed to talk about making funeral
arrangements. Diana remembers I felt so bad for him because he was doing
everything, trying to include me in what was going on, but I just wouldn't
listen, I couldn't listen,
I said, No, that is not going to happen, no way I
don't care what the doctors say, Danae is not going to die One day she
will be just fine, and she will be coming home with us As if willed to
live by Diana's determination, Danae clung to life hour after hour,
with the help of every medical machine and marvel her miniature body could
endure. But as those first days passed, a new agony set in
for David and Diana. Because Danae's under-developed nervous system
was essentially raw, the lightest kiss or caress only intensified her discomfort,
so they couldn't even cradle their tiny baby girl against their chests
to offer the strength of their love.
All they could do, as Danae struggled alone beneath
the ultraviolet light in the tangle of tubes and wires, was
to pray that God would stay close to their precious little girl.
There was never a moment when Danae suddenly grew stronger. But as the weeks went
by, she did slowly gain an ounce of weight here and an ounce of strength
there. At last, when Danae turned two months old, her parents were able
to hold her in their arms for the first time. And two months
later - though doctors continued to gently but grimly warn that her
chances of surviving, much less living any kind of normal life,
were next to zero, Danae went home from the hospital, just as her mother had predicted.
Today, five years later, Danae is a petite
but feisty young girl with glittering gray eyes and an unquenchable zest
for life. She shows no signs, what so ever, of any mental or physical
impairment. Simply, she is everything a little girl can be and more
- but that happy ending is far from the end of her story! . One blistering
afternoon in the summer of 1996 near her home in Irving, Texas, Danae
was sitting in her mother's lap in the bleachers of a local
ballpark where her brother Dustin's baseball team was practicing. As always,
Danae was chattering non-stop with her mother and several other
adults sitting nearby when she suddenly fell silent.
Hugging her arms across her chest, Danae asked,
Do you smell that? Smelling the air and detecting the approach
of a thunderstorm, Diana replied, Yes, it smells like rain. Danae
closed her eyes and again asked, Do you smell that? Once again, her
mother replied, Yes, I think we're about to get wet, it smells like rain.
Still caught in the moment, Danae shook her head,
patted her thin shoulders with her small hands and loudly announced, No, it smells like Him. It smells
like God when you lay your head on His chest.
Tears blurred Diana's eyes as Danae then happily hopped
down to play with the other children. Before the rains came,
her daughter's words confirmed what Diana and all the members of the
extended Blessing family had known, at least in their hearts,
all along. During those long days and nights of her first two months
of her life, when her nerves were too sensitive for them to touch
her, God was holding Danae on His chest
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